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In Pieces On the Ground

September 19th, 2007
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At Times Failure is Inevitable. Photo from featurepics.comYou dream a thousand days and nights and work to the point of exhaustion to build something of great and enduring value. And then you turn around to see that it has fallen from the sky. Crashed to the earth. Lying there in pieces on the ground. What you do at that moment of truth is of overwhelming importance to your success, or lack of it, as a businessperson, marketer, entrepreneur, liver of life, lover, inventor, and romantic.

It begins by recognizing that it is not really a moment of truth. It is a phase of a continuum. If you are to make your true mark as a business person, marketer, liver of life, lover, inventor, romantic:

You must recognize right there at that moment of head on confrontation with the realities of life, that the pieces can be put together again. Or that they can be rearranged into a different type of satellite that will follow another flight path. Or that you can scrap all of the pieces you built your dream on and find others and others and others until you create the code breaker and the great and enduring achievement of your life stays in orbit. A beautiful vision to behold. Everyone is a genius, a winner, a king or a queen when a product, a service, a company, a love takes off. When it soars from a laboratory, a boardroom or a country road, and glides into the blue. But few of the kings, queens and geniuses retain those titles when they are standing there, alone and pole axed, staring at the pieces on the ground.

The greats, which we all can and should aspire to be, view these moments as beginnings, as challenges, as calls to action to find out what went wrong and how to fix it. Or more than that, to rethink everything from the blueprint stage and up and to create a new kind of satellite, software, company, that defies convention, flies in wild gyrations as opposed to predictable orbits and creates a new category far different than what you dreamed of from the start.

A category that first came to you when you stared at the pieces on the ground and saw not the disconnects but instead where the wise and true connections could be made. Anyone can walk away from anything, depressed, defeated and even bitter that it didn’t have a happier ending, a more fruitful result, a more stunning breakthrough. John McEnroe was just another talented mid-level kid on the tennis circuit until he walked on the court one day, saw the pieces on the ground, and
said, “this isn’t about beautiful ground strokes, it’s algebra. It’s all about angles.” with that he rearranged the pieces and became champion of the world.

What will you do with the broken pieces? Photo from Gary GlassIt’s what we do when we see the broken pieces, not the achievements, that makes the difference in our lives. In our grand and blessed continuum.

Mark Stevens
CEO

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3 Responses to “In Pieces On the Ground”

  1. Paul C Says:

    When confronted with the news that my first child would be born with a severe disability, I felt “pole axed”. Horizontally and vertically. Simply sliced apart. Not torn up, it was much quicker and cleaner.

    After a day or six of self pity, it became very clear: I had two choices. I could either run from the situation or I could educate (myself), embrace (daughter) and enlighten (others – about the disability). My wife and I chose the latter.

    How the choices became obvious is still a mystery (at least to me). However, evaluating situations in the most simplistic way has proven quite successful for me since.

    My daughter is now 12 years old and a complete joy. While I would change her condition in a minute for her sake, I would not change the impact it has had on me.

  2. Mark Says:

    This is the heart of the issue. Bravo to you and your wife. You celebrated your daughter’s birth and more important, her life.

    Mark Stevens
    CEO

  3. Eszter Says:

    Congratulations on your blog. I enjoy reading it immensely.

    Today is Easter Monday, everything is relaxed and peaceful. I’m reading your articles.
    This one really touched me.

    These past 2 years (from March 2006 to February 2008) has been like hell. I use the present perfect intentionally: there is still a lot left for me to learn from this period of my life.

    Story: sales at my company started to decline in March 2006. Up to November 2007 the company practically shrunk to a size where we were (together with my partner) contemplating of closing it down for good. The company was in the red. We had lost lots of money, but what is more: lots of customers.

    But I knew there would be more to my dream than this.

    Together with my partner we took a good hard look at ourselves and what we saw was far from good let alone great. We changed practically everything. Starting with ourselves. And in February 2008 sales rose by 20 %.
    This is just a number, but what is more important: I can see smiles on the people’s faces. :)
    Clients, colleagues, partners, passers-by. Even our cats. :)

    We still have a lot to learn but I can’t express how proud I am that we didn’t quit and that we keep walking. And learning.

    Cheers,

    Eszter from Hungary

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